Being admitted into hospital is a challenging time. When it is a planned admission, there is time to plan and organize oneself, taking time to decide what to take. This planning can prove valuable in helping us distract ourselves and not dwell too much on the upcoming ordeal. It can also be a source of stress as we ponder what we’ll need in what is usually an unknown environment.
Do I need towels or are they provided? How many of my own clothes do I need? How much space is there to keep everything? How secure is it? How will I keep myself occupied? What books, magazines or technology can I take?
Having spent time in this environment, some of the things that people have found invaluable are:
- Eye masks – hospitals are noisy, busy and lit up places. Even with the best will in the world, keeping lights low and noise down consistently can be a challenge. Overhead lights are bright, and when the nurses and doctors are working by the bedside, will have those on. It is ‘s very distracting to have bright lights in our faces, especially when we are tired or trying to sleep. Even when we are just resting, it can be irritating. Eye masks can provide the respite we need and allow us to rest in relative peace. There are so many to choose from and the best one for us will come down to preference.
- Ear plugs – For pretty much the same reason as eye masks, ear plugs are very useful when we are faced with noises in the ward. Many of the machines used in hospital beep. This is important in alerting the team that the machine needs attention, and is therefore vital. Until such a time as we find a way to do this alerts quietly, mitigating for this falls on the patient. Again, like with eye masks, there are a variety of ear plugs out there and it really depends on what works for us. Some people do struggle to wear ear plugs, and they either have to brave the noise, or try headphones.
- Headphones – headphones1 are a great piece of equipment to bring to hospital for various reasons, and they do not take up too much space. We can use them to block out excess noise, same as ear plugs. They are also very good for allowing us to listen to music, podcasts, audiobooks, watch films and shows. Having access to these activities will help us stay occupied and distract ourselves. Time can seem to stretch impossibly ahead of us. Boredom, discomfort or even pain can make our stay hard, and having access to things that are meaningful to us can be a source of much needed comfort.
- Pen, notebook/journal – doctors, nurses and allied health professionals will do a ward round together. This is where they see each patient and get an update on their progress and review how the treatment is going and decide if any changes are warranted. Often patients will have questions that they need to ask, and it is worth noting this down because it is easy to get distracted when one has several people around the bed talking in what to a lay person sounds like a different language. Writing the questions down before hand means you can then read them without the risk of forgetting. Some people also like to make a note of what the medical team say, and having a pen and paper handy helps with is. These rounds can happen without relatives or friends there, who we may need to update later and writing it down helps to remember, especially as the brain is working incredibly hard to help us get well, is probably loaded with strong medications, and is tired and therefore too much information is easily confusing.
- Reading material – as with music, magazines and books can be a lifeline when we are admitted in hospital. The hours can seem to stretch and the walls to draw in, and there are only so many walks one can do around the ward and the corridors. Soon after an operation or when we are very unwell, the brain can be too tired to focus on heavy reading, but magazines, puzzle books and word searches are light enough for the brain to grasp.
- A little 24hr light up clock. Some wards and room will have clocks but not always. Sleep can be elusive in hospital and when we are tired, in pain or on strong medications, even more so. Days and nights can tend to meld into each other and having a 24 hour clock helps with knowing exactly what time it is. For some people this can be comforting and can help them plan their time. However, some people find that having a clock is counter productive as they spend countless hours watching it and feeling frustrated at how little it’s moving …it seems to be moving backwards!
- A night/dressing gown/housecoat – if one has ever been in admitted in hospital, they know the indignity of feeling bare backed and unable to get the flaps to overlap appropriately. Hospital gowns are designed to come off easily. A personal gown, especially when we are walking around can be very handy in helping us focus on walking and not on whether our dignity is intact when we are unsteady on our feet.
- Change of clothes – when we are able, getting dressed in our own clothes is probably one of the best things we can do for our well being. Staying in hospital gowns or night clothes have the inadvertent effect of making us feel like invalids and even though that is what we are, getting dressed could help us feel more like our well selves. A very small fleece blanket can be handy for wrapping around us or on our bed for extra warmth and comfort, though this might not always be possible due to infection control considerations.
- Mobile phones, tablets, laptops – are all good for staying in touch with loved ones and watching our favorite shows.
- Photos of loved ones, places we love, pets. Especially for longer stays, having a visual reminder of people we care about, or places and times when we have been well can give us sense of hopefulness, and motivation. Of course this can do the opposite and prove demotivating and depressing. Often people will say they have millions of pictures on their phones, but when one is tired or heavily medicated, scrolling on the phone can feel like too much work.
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